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		<title>Comment on Musings on Adolescent Accountability by Diana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 18:06:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Shirley

Thank you for your poignant comments and for also being a regular reader of my blog. I agree with everything you say. Keep up the good work and &quot;marching to your tune.&quot;

Peace,
Diana</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shirley</p>
<p>Thank you for your poignant comments and for also being a regular reader of my blog. I agree with everything you say. Keep up the good work and &#8220;marching to your tune.&#8221;</p>
<p>Peace,<br />
Diana</p>
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		<title>Comment on Musings on Adolescent Accountability by Shirley Budhos</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shirley Budhos</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 16:30:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>CORRECTION: successful adult (last word omitted in previous reply).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>CORRECTION: successful adult (last word omitted in previous reply).</p>
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		<title>Comment on Musings on Adolescent Accountability by Shirley Budhos</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shirley Budhos</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 16:28:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Taking responsibility for what we did, said,  did not do or say is the way to go---in my own measure of integrity. 

Also, there&#039;s a semantic problem in the examples; adolescent rebellion may or may not be so banal or simple, it can be harmful, reckless, or irrelevant. Opposing rituals, elders&#039; beliefs, family rules, society&#039;s restrictions. driving when drunk,  challenging a weaker person, unfairly competing, cheating are not equal in intent or effect on others, as well as on oneself.

Whether a person evolves from rebellious adolescent to a successsful, also, is not evidence of integrity. In the US, our work, our vocation is supposed to identify us; however, there&#039;s more to identity, and the scale includes empathy, for without it, a person is truly dangerous to others. Whatever our profession or passion, we are connected to others, but in my view, Mitt Romney is not. He is sorely lacking in empathy, has managed to avoid ordinary people, poor people, middle class people. or anyone  unlike him. Every plan or program he devises  focuses on &quot;business and profits,&quot; a very poor construct for leading a country.How unlike his father whom I remember clearly. Being the boss is Mitt&#039;s motto; working cooperatively  seems alien to him. Perhaps it is because of his overseas missionary zeal ! His propensity for arrogance is harmful, especially while we are experiencing a recession (so familiar to one  born in the Depression).

Yes, there is a price for speaking out; what&#039;s the alternative? Falling in line? As for marching to one&#039;s own tune, I&#039;m for it and still do it at 82.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Taking responsibility for what we did, said,  did not do or say is the way to go&#8212;in my own measure of integrity. </p>
<p>Also, there&#8217;s a semantic problem in the examples; adolescent rebellion may or may not be so banal or simple, it can be harmful, reckless, or irrelevant. Opposing rituals, elders&#8217; beliefs, family rules, society&#8217;s restrictions. driving when drunk,  challenging a weaker person, unfairly competing, cheating are not equal in intent or effect on others, as well as on oneself.</p>
<p>Whether a person evolves from rebellious adolescent to a successsful, also, is not evidence of integrity. In the US, our work, our vocation is supposed to identify us; however, there&#8217;s more to identity, and the scale includes empathy, for without it, a person is truly dangerous to others. Whatever our profession or passion, we are connected to others, but in my view, Mitt Romney is not. He is sorely lacking in empathy, has managed to avoid ordinary people, poor people, middle class people. or anyone  unlike him. Every plan or program he devises  focuses on &#8220;business and profits,&#8221; a very poor construct for leading a country.How unlike his father whom I remember clearly. Being the boss is Mitt&#8217;s motto; working cooperatively  seems alien to him. Perhaps it is because of his overseas missionary zeal ! His propensity for arrogance is harmful, especially while we are experiencing a recession (so familiar to one  born in the Depression).</p>
<p>Yes, there is a price for speaking out; what&#8217;s the alternative? Falling in line? As for marching to one&#8217;s own tune, I&#8217;m for it and still do it at 82.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Musings on Adolescent Accountability by Diana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 15:06:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Doc

Thanks for your comment. I wholeheartedly agree - &quot;where have honesty, integrity and personal responsibility gone?&quot; Very well-stated.
Also, thanks for all your regular comments on my blog. Greatly appreciated!

Diana</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Doc</p>
<p>Thanks for your comment. I wholeheartedly agree &#8211; &#8220;where have honesty, integrity and personal responsibility gone?&#8221; Very well-stated.<br />
Also, thanks for all your regular comments on my blog. Greatly appreciated!</p>
<p>Diana</p>
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		<title>Comment on Musings on Adolescent Accountability by Doc</title>
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		<dc:creator>Doc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 14:47:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As every budding novelist knows, action reveals character. Unfortunately, CEO’s, presidential candidates, and talk-show hosts seem to believe it’s what a person says rather than what they do that counts. Where have honesty, integrity and personal responsibility gone?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As every budding novelist knows, action reveals character. Unfortunately, CEO’s, presidential candidates, and talk-show hosts seem to believe it’s what a person says rather than what they do that counts. Where have honesty, integrity and personal responsibility gone?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Musings on Adolescent Accountability by Diana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 14:09:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jim

Thanks for your comment. I completely agree. We all mess up and there&#039;s something quite honorable about giving an apology. It takes a &#039;big person&#039; to do that. It will be curious if that ever happens in this situation.

Diana</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jim</p>
<p>Thanks for your comment. I completely agree. We all mess up and there&#8217;s something quite honorable about giving an apology. It takes a &#8216;big person&#8217; to do that. It will be curious if that ever happens in this situation.</p>
<p>Diana</p>
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		<title>Comment on Musings on Adolescent Accountability by Diana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 14:07:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joan

Thanks for your comment! I wholeheartedly agree. We are not perfect and all make mistakes. It would have made him more accountable and respected had he apologized.

Diana</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joan</p>
<p>Thanks for your comment! I wholeheartedly agree. We are not perfect and all make mistakes. It would have made him more accountable and respected had he apologized.</p>
<p>Diana</p>
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		<title>Comment on Musings on Adolescent Accountability by Diana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 14:06:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Phil,

Thanks for your comment on my blog. I completely agree and I also like the metaphor of &#039;tin ear.&#039; In any event, how could someone forget such an encounter? To me it sounds unheard of. Denial and/or lying is unacceptable in this situation. An apology would have made him look like a bigger man.

Diana</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Phil,</p>
<p>Thanks for your comment on my blog. I completely agree and I also like the metaphor of &#8216;tin ear.&#8217; In any event, how could someone forget such an encounter? To me it sounds unheard of. Denial and/or lying is unacceptable in this situation. An apology would have made him look like a bigger man.</p>
<p>Diana</p>
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		<title>Comment on Musings on Adolescent Accountability by Philip Deaver</title>
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		<dc:creator>Philip Deaver</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 12:51:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it would be a concern if a person had a history of bullying, say by leading a posse that would catch a kid, pin him down, cut his hair, and then nearly 50 years later would proudly say to a questioner during a presidential campaign that he doesn&#039;t remember doing it, and on another occasion proudly say to a crowd that he loves to fire people. In the best interpretation it&#039;s a pattern, a tin ear in the empathy department.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it would be a concern if a person had a history of bullying, say by leading a posse that would catch a kid, pin him down, cut his hair, and then nearly 50 years later would proudly say to a questioner during a presidential campaign that he doesn&#8217;t remember doing it, and on another occasion proudly say to a crowd that he loves to fire people. In the best interpretation it&#8217;s a pattern, a tin ear in the empathy department.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Musings on Adolescent Accountability by joan pohl</title>
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		<dc:creator>joan pohl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 12:15:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think we should learn from our  mistakes. We make mistakes as youths and as adults.
Forgiveness is important.
Saying,&quot; I am sorry, I  messed  up&quot; is part of growing up and living.
We are not perfect.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think we should learn from our  mistakes. We make mistakes as youths and as adults.<br />
Forgiveness is important.<br />
Saying,&#8221; I am sorry, I  messed  up&#8221; is part of growing up and living.<br />
We are not perfect.</p>
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